Truth be told … we can’t stop ourselves to ask our partners … one million things.
We ask to speak to us into a certain way, to kiss us … or hug us … or make love to us … like we tell them to do it …
In fact … we can’t really stop ourselves to keep asking that … and that … and that …
And … we simple drive crazy … not getting all those things.
Or … even getting them … all not really being exactly how we’ve asked it … it’s actually … annoying.
But …. we keep repeating ourselves.
We ask that and that … and that … and in fact … we can’t stop this process.
On and on … and on.
The funny thing is …. that we never don’t really get what we want.
It even becomes annoying to keep asking … for both sides … but we are still doing it.
The good thing is that the passing of time makes us understand that a relationship is not about getting what we want.
It simple … doesn’t happen … no matter how much we want it.
In fact … we come into a point of such a weird wisdom that … we realise that keep asking all sorts of things from our partners it’s useless.
Smiling … looking into the eyes of that person … we finally say… “I’ll try to stop myself with so many requests on you! … starting from today!”
You see … maybe … we understand that the whole meaning of a love story is actually … a totally different one than we thought.
So … we just don’t want anything … anymore … but somehow … still … we want the love story itself.
Simple … enjoy it.
We look changed … having a totally different perspective …. but …
Damn it …. It’s so annoying that we can’t easily find books about the psychology of love … read them … and understand how we should act in such stories.
Whatever had been written is just …. blablablas …
I trend to believe …. that keep asking one million things is stupid.
We should also focus on trying to be that prototype of perfect partner we chase for … and….
But theory itself it’s simple.
Unfortunately … we can’t implement it …
Never…
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